Wednesday 6 July 2011

Simple pleasures in a busy week!

It's a busy week- as always! Jim has gone to bed early with ear ache and is finding Line Managing hypochondriacs a challenge (+21 separate episodes illness in less than 12 months..some ladies let the side down lol!)- I thought I would try and write the romantic things that are still possible in a busy week when one of you is ill!!

  • Make A TV Date- Dating in the Dark on a Tuesday on Living strangely gets us in the mood- for a good chat about relationships at the very least!
  • Send lots of  little texts to each other in the day- 4 words and a symbol can say a lot!
  • Clear up all the washing up early so your spouse can really enjoy/ get on with their work from home.
  • Look at other people's blogs together- one of our followers has some amazing arty/erotic photos.
  • Buy and steam and butter in-season asparagus- surprise your partner with an unexpected treat!
  • When your partner is late, got caught in traffic, has work at a time you thought they were free- surprise them with your patience!
  • Be interested in their day- remember where they said they were going/meetings they would be having and show you are genuinely interested.
  • Give specific praise compliment them in a very 'ungeneral' way- I will quote 2 of Jim's texts this week:  Monday- "Thank u for listening last night. Sorry that i am so complicated xx have a wonderful day in ur sexy shorts" Today -" You looked really hot this morning. Have a wonderful day and i am so pleased u had a different Monday".

1 comment:

  1. It isn't precisely about BDSM relationships, but I can't recommend the book "Kosher Adultery" by Schmuley Boteach enough.

    He is a relationship specialist who in this book teaches you how to get all the thrill and fun of an extramarital affair while remaining monogamous to your spouse.

    Try it, you'll like it!

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