Ideas we can pick from .......

We will both write down five ideas/situations that we would like to try. These will be placed in a pot and we will randomly pick one each week. When we think of a new idea we will add this to the pot and post on the blog.


Jim's Five

• A fire in the garden while listening to music and drinking red wine
• To take a least half an hour each to massage each other before .......
• To find alternative ways to communicate with each other during the day without using mobiles and emails
• Book a romantic weekend away for 2!
• Have sex in a new place (not in the house)

Niamh's Five

• Look on similar websites/blogs to learn from them..
• Take time to really think about the way the other appreciates things and find a new way to show them how much you value them.
• Try out a new way to have an intimate evening at home - avoid the familiar things you normally do..
• Use a social stirrers pot to stimulate new conversations.
• Do something spiritual together..

Tomorrow we will pick one for this week...

(If any readers have any additional ideas..please let us know and we may add them to our list)

10.15p.m   I was very impressed that Jim chose to spend some of his birthday money on...new bed linen!- time to slip under the new duvet!