Sunday, 19 June 2011

The boundaries have been set..

While attempting to pan-fry a romantic supper of asparagus wrapped in bacon! and fending off our daughters' frequent interruptions of 'my toe is so sore'; Jim and I managed to discuss and agree on the groundrules for the challenges and ideas which we will be trying out over this next year! In no particular order...

  • Actual, physical Intimacy will only involve the 2 of us.
  • Ensure the right balance between giving and receiving.
  • We will seek to identify the small gestures as well as the large ones.
  • Whatever we do will be glorifying to God.
  • Fantasies are fine as long as we would be happy to share them with each other and they do not involve people we know.
  • If either of us does not like an idea or wants to stop at any point their wishes will be respected without question.


  1. Thank you so much for following my blog and for your comment. I think you're off to a great start! Husband and I have also been married for 17 years and just started this lifestyle about three months ago. I look forward to hearing more about your journey!

  2. Thank you subbie for sharing our journey with us x

  3. It sounds like you have some great boundaries set there. What a happy journey this will be for you both!


  4. thanks Dannah ... bring on the happiness ...