Sunday 19 June 2011

The boundaries have been set..

While attempting to pan-fry a romantic supper of asparagus wrapped in bacon! and fending off our daughters' frequent interruptions of 'my toe is so sore'; Jim and I managed to discuss and agree on the groundrules for the challenges and ideas which we will be trying out over this next year! In no particular order...

  • Actual, physical Intimacy will only involve the 2 of us.
  • Ensure the right balance between giving and receiving.
  • We will seek to identify the small gestures as well as the large ones.
  • Whatever we do will be glorifying to God.
  • Fantasies are fine as long as we would be happy to share them with each other and they do not involve people we know.
  • If either of us does not like an idea or wants to stop at any point their wishes will be respected without question.

4 comments:

  1. Thank you so much for following my blog and for your comment. I think you're off to a great start! Husband and I have also been married for 17 years and just started this lifestyle about three months ago. I look forward to hearing more about your journey!

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  2. Thank you subbie for sharing our journey with us x

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  3. It sounds like you have some great boundaries set there. What a happy journey this will be for you both!

    Dannah

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  4. thanks Dannah ... bring on the happiness ...

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